fix(rust): protocol 13 — a configuration save that settles after its reload (F9, D179)

The plugin now answers a save once the files are written, with pending and
a writeId, and reports the reload later as a config.outcome event. The save
is recorded as reloading with a settle_by of two plugin ceilings plus slack
on the database's clock; ingest settles the row by (server, writeId), only
while it is still reloading, so a replay moves nothing and a late outcome
still lands. A row past settle_by reads as lost.

GET /admin/rust/config/:serverId/writes/:writeId serves the poll; the page
polls it every two seconds, holds the Save button while it waits, and says
whether a rolled-back plugin came back on its old file. config.outcome is
a staff kind: it carries the server's log tail.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01E14m6SuuY6i1vASFeGDBeY

server/sidecarClient.js

@@ -79,7 +79,7 @@ const TIMEOUT_MS = 12000
  * deployment into a `409` naming both numbers instead of a parse failure three
  * layers further in.
  */
-const PROTOCOL_VERSION = 12
+const PROTOCOL_VERSION = 13
 
 /** What a caller gets back. Shaped once so every call site reads the same. */
 function reply(ok, status, data = null) {