feat(account): unlink game accounts on the shard before an account is deleted (MODULE_API 1.20.0)

ACCOUNT_DELETION.md §4.4 (AD10, AD11). api.onUserDeleting queues every linked
account in the new shard_pending_unlinks table, then calls the sidecar's
DELETE /link/{account} (actor web:account-deletion) and drops the mirror on 200/404.
A shard that is away leaves the row pending, retried on WS reconnect and on a live
server.hello; a protected account (403) is refused and listed on Admin -> Shard as
still linked on the shard. A live mob.login without the deleted user's webId clears
the row. coreApi ^1.20.0; core-ref pinned to website#232's merge (7bd93b8).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01E14m6SuuY6i1vASFeGDBeY

server/test/_fakes.js

@@ -149,6 +149,8 @@ function fakeApi() {
     registerEventLeases(leases) { once('registerEventLeases'); record.eventLeases = leases },
     onBoot(fn) { once('onBoot'); record.hooks.onBoot = fn },
     onShutdown(fn) { once('onShutdown'); record.hooks.onShutdown = fn },
+    // MODULE_API 1.20.0 (account deletion, ACCOUNT_DELETION.md §4.4).
+    onUserDeleting(fn) { once('onUserDeleting'); record.hooks.onUserDeleting = fn },
   }
   api.record = record
   return api