feat(events): conditions, phase advancement and the diagnosis panel (Phase 5)

A phase used to advance on one fact - every step terminal. It can now also carry
an advance CONDITION: `{ after: '30m' }` or `{ on: '<triggerId>', where:
<conditions>, count: n }`, reusing `engagement/conditions.js` unchanged. The
phase's real deliverable is the diagnosis panel: "why didn't phase 3 start?"
answered in the condition builder's own words, with the tally, the elapsed time
and the last related firing whether or not it counted.

`POST /admin/events/runs/:runId/advance` arrives beside it. It has been absent
since Phase 3 for want of a meaning; a phase with a gate can wait on a boss that
will never spawn, and that is the one state "force it anyway" names.

One new table, `event_run_phase_gates`. The emit path writes the tally at the
moment a firing happens - a gate waiting on three spawns counts things that
occur between two ticks, and a tally held in a process's memory is one a restart
silently zeroes - and the runner's tick reads it.

A gate that never opens is HELD, with no automatic advance and no authored
timeout (org lead, 2026-09-02). What the engine owes instead is visibility:
`EVENT_PHASE_STALL_MS` takes the run's health to `stalled`, and `setHealth` is
now escalation-only so a later retry cannot demote it.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01T6t8mrAWhZU5vnyYgZTMtL

server/routes.manifest.json

@@ -233,6 +233,10 @@
       "method": "GET",
       "path": "/api/v1/admin/events/runs/:runId"
     },
+    {
+      "method": "POST",
+      "path": "/api/v1/admin/events/runs/:runId/advance"
+    },
     {
       "method": "POST",
       "path": "/api/v1/admin/events/runs/:runId/cancel"