feat(notifications): per-channel preferences and the delivery-channel registry (engagement Phase 3)

`notification_subscriptions` answers one question — which streams a user wants
PUSHED — because that is the only question the shipped Android client can ask.
This adds the general one: which subscribable ids, on which channel, in which
mode. The old table becomes the push projection of the new one and keeps its
exact wire shape, so the shipped APK needs no update and no delivery path is
touched.

What lands:

- `engagement/channels.js` — `registerDeliveryChannel` (ENGAGEMENT.md §3.1), the
  declarative half only: id, label, `carriesContent`, `defaultMode`,
  `supportsDigest`. `addressFor`/`render`/`deliver` wait for Phases 6 and 7, for
  the reason `transports/index.js` deferred this file at all. `coreChannels.js`
  declares push / email / inapp through the subsystem's one door.
- `notification_channel_prefs` + a replay-safe `INSERT IGNORE … SELECT` backfill,
  copying the `announce_jobs → announce_job_legs` precedent.
- `GET · PUT /auth/me/notifications/channels`. The PUT is SPARSE — only the
  `(id, channel)` pairs named are written — deliberately unlike the two whole-set
  PUTs beside it. `off` is a mode rather than an omission, so this endpoint has
  no empty-array case and the kotlinx DTO gotcha cannot arise here.

Three decisions the org lead settled before any code, and one corrects the
phase's own acceptance criterion: push's `defaultMode` is `off`, not `instant`.
The plan borrowed "push is opt-OUT" from `team_notification_prefs`, where no row
does mean notified — but stream subscriptions have never worked that way, so
`instant` would have projected the whole catalog into the legacy GET for every
existing user and switched every toggle on in the shipped app after an upgrade
nobody asked for. A test pins the legacy GET at `{streams:[]}` for a fresh user.

One thing not named by the phase, and it is a G24 consequence rather than scope
creep: a trigger ceilinged at `staff` can never reach a non-staff user, so
offering the toggle would be offering a dead control AND disclosing the event
exists — `uo.cheat.detected` would otherwise appear in every player's screen the
moment Phase 11 declared it. Filtered from the catalog and gated on write. That
gave the `staff` label its first consumer, now written down as
`ceilings.STAFF_CEILING_ROLES` (the admin tier's three, deliberately not
`teamGrants.STAFF_ROLES`, which answers a different question).

15 new tests; swagger, route manifest and guards regenerated. No web or app
surface — those are Phases 7 and 8, where a preference governs something visible.

Refs: docs/website/ENGAGEMENT.md Phase 3, §3.1, §4.5

Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

server/routes.manifest.json

@@ -569,6 +569,14 @@
       "method": "DELETE",
       "path": "/api/v1/auth/me/devices/:id"
     },
+    {
+      "method": "GET",
+      "path": "/api/v1/auth/me/notifications/channels"
+    },
+    {
+      "method": "PUT",
+      "path": "/api/v1/auth/me/notifications/channels"
+    },
     {
       "method": "GET",
       "path": "/api/v1/auth/me/notifications/streams"